The Price of Fame

My husband and I had to go to Walmart today to buy a TV. We picked one out and were on our way to the register when I saw before me a very famous rock star. I had met him twice before but had not seen him in about 10 years. I spoke to him as I was walking by. He was very nice and was trying to remember our last meeting but just couldn't. He gave me an autograph for my son Matthew and we chatted for a few more minutes as others started milling around to catch a glimpse or take a picture with their phones or get an autograph. Something told me to give his friend/body guard my business card. I am not sure if he will ever see it and doubt he will ever get in touch but my gut said give it so I did. As I waited in line behind him at the register, I watched all the people wanting to take a piece of this man. He didn't seem to mind all of them wanting autographs or the pictures. He even signed my shirt. When he was finished with his purchase he said goodbye to everyone and left. We were close behind him as we were leaving at the same time. He was stopped by some more people on his way out. Outside the store he was speaking to a man who looked like a manager and as we walked out they walked back in.
On the way home I pondered all of this. Part of me felt bad for this man. He really can't go out in public without being approached. He told me that he meets so many people that he just can't remember many of them. How can he find the peace and the privacey we all take for granted. I can go anywhere and do anything and not have to worry about someone watching me or bothering me. I guess it is the price you pay for fame.
Of course this man brings joy to so many with his music. I wonder if he realizes how much he can brighten the day of a person just by saying hello or signing that autograph. Everyone was smiling as they took their pictures and spoke with him. I noticed a young man standing and watching all that was going on. It was obvious that he had a develpmental disability. This famous man noticed him also and stopped what he was doing at the register and went over and gave him a high five. What a smile that young man had on his face. I was impressed.
Remember that you do not have to be famous to brighten up someone's day. Sometimes all it takes is acknowledging the presence of someone with a smile or a hello. This shows the other person that they matter. It may the only time they get that recognition all day. So don't be afraid to smile at your neighbor. Smiles are contageous. I bet even if they are feeling bad they will smile back.
Part of me still feels bad for this man. It must be so hard at times to be in the lime light. My wish for him is that in his life he has the peace within. Maybe he does already and that is why he is so good with the public. He is in the Rock Hall of Fame and has accomplished much in his life and I am sure he will accomplish even more.
I am grateful that I had the opportunity to see him and chat with him today. I am grateful for my life of peace and privacy. I am grateful for all of my friends who come and read this blog.
Love and Peace Anne